Thursday, December 15, 2011

Should I call off my wedding because my Fiancée refuses to Fly/Travel or go ‘loud’ places?

My fiancée is perfect except…he refuses to fly (has a strong fear of flying and has never flown in his life). He also avoids places with loud noises and crowds (movies, concerts, sporting events, bars etc.). Every other aspect of the relationship is perfect, he’s attentive , strong man’s man, supportive, y, we connect physically and emotionally, he would do anything for me…..well except for flying and going loud places. The problem is I have traveled my whole life and really looked forward to spending the few years in between marriage and babies to do a bunch of traveling. Once I have kids I want them to travel too. I also enjoy going out to movies, games and bars etc. In the 3 years we’ve been dating I’ve accepted it and he has not done anything about his fears and has not tried anything out of his comfort zone. I don’t know what to do, do I move forward with the wedding because I love him and everything else is great and accept that I will have to travel and do other activities without him?…or is not traveling and lacking common interest in activities enough to call off a wedding?? I live by the philosophy that I only have one life to live and should live it to the fullest, I don’t want to make the wrong decision!

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